We moved house on Monday! We’ve been living with my mum for over 7 months – she’s definitely gone above and beyond the job description! Now that we have our own place again I popped to a large wholesale store yesterday to stock up on exciting things like kitchen towel and loo roll. This is the second big batch of kitchen towel I’ve bought in my life – 20 in a pack!! #awesome When I used to buy 2 or maybe 4 rolls at a time I would save it for real necessity, using it only when it really felt like the best thing to use. Otherwise reaching for a cloth. Since switching my shopping habits my attitude to kitchen-towel-use has changed*. There’s something about knowing you have a bountiful supply of absorbent paper available that makes you free and easy with its use. Split some milk there, no problem, let me wipe it with some kitchen towel. Red wine on the carpet, no worries, kitchen towel will soak that right up.
When something’s in plentiful supply we feel we can do anything!
I experienced this effect with my perspective on time after my op-recovery when I went from things being hard work, kinda painful and taking a long time to suddenly being able to do lots, quickly and pain-free – this sense of maximising my time was also assisted by more exercise which boosted my resilience, thinking abilities and sleep quality.
We all have a finite amount of time in a day, and a finite amount of money or resource to do things with. So here we have a choice – we can choose to think we don’t have enough of either, or we can choose to think that we can invest what we have in a way that is most important to us.
So, what is there in your life that you feel is in short supply? What do you feel you’re most restricted by? Find that and then do something with it.
Oh, but there’s a thing there. Choosing how we invest our time / money / resource needs us to know what’s important to us so it can act like an anchor for our decision-making. What’s most important to you? What are your big priorities or goals?
How clear are you on this? How clear are those around you? Are you and your team aligned on what counts as important right now? And if you’re working in a business where ‘important’ can be dictated from elsewhere, outside of you, it will change – sometimes frequently. How will you know that it’s changed and adjust your sails accordingly?
So there’s another thing, stuff changes – frequently – so to help our thinking on that I rather liked this image from Carl Richards (HT Brene Brown for sharing) because sometimes we can’t be absolutely, definitely sure that what we’re choosing to do is the most important right now. At those times, embrace the uncertainty, choose to do something and do it.
[Here’s Carl’s article if you’d like to read it]
I’d love to hear about what restricts you and how you have, or are going to, choose BOTH what’s important to you AND embrace the uncertainty.
* P.S. – I appreciate this attitude to kitchen towel probably isn’t best for the environment. Sorry about that.
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